Don't Tell Me Please don't tell me you know how I feel, Unless you have lost your child too, Please don't tell me my broken heart will heal, Because that is just not true, Please don't tell me my daughter is in a better place, Though it is true, I want her here with me, Don't tell me someday I'll hear her voice, see her face, Beyond today I cannot see, Don't tell me it is time to move on, Because I cannot, Don't tell me to face the fact she is gone, Because denial is something I can't stop, Don't tell me to be thankful for the time I had, Because I wanted more, Don't tell me when I am my old self you will be glad, I'll never be as I was before, What you can tell me is you will be here for me, That you will listen when I talk of my child, You can share with me my precious memories, You can even cry with me for a while, And please don't hesitate to say her name, Because it is something I long to hear everyday, Friend, please realize that I can never be the same, But if you stand by me, you may like the new person I become someday.
When God Calls Little Children / Angela
WHEN GOD CALLS LITTLE CHILDREN
When God calls little children to dwell with him above, We mortals sometime question the wisdom of his love For no heartache compares with the death of one's own child Who does so much to make our world, seem wonderful and mild Perhaps God tires of calling the aged to his fold, So He picks a rosebud, before she can grow old. God knows how much we need them, and so he takes but a few To make the land of Heaven more beautiful to view. Believing this is difficult still but somehow we must try, The saddest word mankind knows will always be "Goodbye." So when our child departs we who are left behind Must realize God loves children, Angels are hard to find.
-Unknown
Letter from Shelby / Absecon's Angel
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say... but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay. I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above. Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight. Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night. That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through, God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone. As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on. I need you here badly; you're part of my plan. There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do. And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you. And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight. God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears. But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain. Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned. But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand. But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er. I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb; but together we can do it by taking one day at a time. It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too... that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain, then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain." And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile, knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low, just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go. When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind; I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free, remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Shelby I Miss You And Love You / Valerie Rubi (Friend) Dear Shelby,
You dont know how much I need you in my life. Everyday I think of you and ask myself "why" you, why the most precious, wonderful, beatiful and intelligent girl and let me tell you that from those questions I ask myself I never get an answer. You been in heaven for a year and nine months and those months and the year have been some of the worst ones in my life especially on the holidays and March 15 are the days that I spent thinking of you and my family members that have passed away. Shelby if I can somehow bring you back into this world and spend some time with you on this earth, I would be different. But Shelby dont worry we will make your last request come true we will have as many benefits to raise up the money and find the cure. Shelby as well everybody even me are proud of your wonderful parents because they are doing so much to make your last wishes come true. Rip Shelby
I miss you And love you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Your in my heart forever.
Valerie
Surviving the worst loss / Bobbie Richter (Grandmother) Shelby was one of 8 of my grandchildren. Each one precious and special in their own way. No one should ever have to endure the heart wrenching pain of losing a child or especially a grandchild! Although we as mortals don't understand WHY??? I know for sure that Shelby had a mission in life, which was to show people how to live each and every moment, and fill those moments with LOVE. Shelby also took on the extremely difficult task of teaching us how to die with love and dignity! Shelby's wish was to find a cure for UNDIFFERENTIATED SARCOMA, so that other children wouldn't die. We as the family of Shelby, are dedicated to that purpose and will do everything we can to accomplish that goal! Always in our hearts, never far away.................Love, Grandma
To the family of Absecon's Angel / Karen Gibson What a beautiful website and tribute to Shelby. I enjoyed looking at the pictures and especially liked the ones of Shelby and her dad. I'm sorry I missed meeting Shelby, but I do visit her gravesite often. If she was anything like her brother Justin, whom I've gotten to know a bit, then I know she was a sweetheart. I am so sorry for your loss, but I know this site will keep her memory alive for you and hopefully heal your broken heart. Shelby's death has changed my perspective on living life to be happy and charitable, and if there is anything I can do to help, please let me know. She has deepened my appreciation of my own children, and I thank her for that.
To my brother,my best friend I love you man, stay strong! oh and warm lol / Brett Richter (Uncle) I know it has been trying and stressful more than anyone person deserves, as well as emotionally draining at times, everyone has different opinions on how to do things which makes it difficult to accomplish the task at hand which is to bring awareness to undifferentiated sarcoma as your daughter requested, so stay focused on the goal and realize all types or research and studies that help find cures to keep our children healthy and alive are good, so keep on track your doing great the web site looks great and remember your a honorable man w/ integrity and a great father keep on being who you are, God Bless Luv ya Pal
Miss You / Bart Richter (Father) Shelby When you left this world and you passed away in my arms, I felt as though you took part of my sole. My heart is in pain everyday. I can't wait till we meet again. You promised me that you would meet me at thoughs Pearly Gates. I know you told me that I have to finish what I've started, but I keep running into road blocks along the way. I keep thinking about how you told me that "God won't give you more then you could handle". There are days that I really feel as though I can't handle this anymore. PLEASE, give me the strength to carry on!!! I Love You & Miss You Very Much Daddy